I think that being a virgin is a state of mind where you decide when to give every last inch of yourself to that one special person you couldn’t imagine life without. I have decided that I will lose my virginity the night of my wedding to one lucky man. Just because you have more than one sexual encounter doesn’t mean you must give your virginity to that FIRST boy you met in high school or bla bla bla. I’m tired of seeing the word virgin used in disgrace. I am a virgin, still figuring my shit out, making mistakes one at a time, living on this beautiful planet with all of you beautiful people and I decide when to give it up and what counts.