As a woman that waited for sex, I was always concerned that when I found the man it would happen with, that for whatever reason I would be able to please him. I never would have dreamed that I actually could and that it would be me that would be left unsatisfied... And no amount of talking to him or switching and changing things up would change the fact that I'm usually left unsatisfied.

Things got better for a small amount of time but just seems like when it doesn't happen for me, those emotions come back up and I'm left thinking"What about me?" Shouldn't I be satisfied too? I mean I'm not asking for Christian Grey or some romance novel fairytail. But shouldn't I get it too?