Yesterday I tried a diva cup even though I’ve never even tried a tampon! And because I wasn’t sure I put it in right, I’m virgin btw I put it in further! Let me tell you the whole process was a bit painful and stressful and I’m kinda scared a diva cup ruined my virginity ik how this may seem dumb but to me my virginity is something I plan on saving for marriage anyways I broke down and started crying once I realized what I had done. My mom told me to remove it and that not to worry that my vagina wouldn’t be loose as I had only had it in me for a while and that if I do save myself it would probably go back to normal just like a wound if you take care of it the body does the rest. She also told me my virginity is perfect and it all depends on what my definition of virgin is and lastly she told me not to use a diva cup or tampon or anything that goes up their because it wasn’t worth my reaction.