10 weeks, sick just need a ear!

Hi guys, I have been having a rough few days! My right lymph node is swollen and the doctor thinks it's a ear infection and has put me on amoxicillin, I have so much from just turning my head that I have to take Tylenol to ease the pain, I'm using hot pads but it really doesn't help! And then yesterday my thyroid results came and they said I have really low levels and put in an urgent referral to an endocrinologist, but they have literally no openings till august! I have been on the phone all day freaking out and my doctors are just taking this very light, my first pregnancy ended in a miscarriage and I'm very very scared! I live with my husband and he's trying but he's not very supportive, and now I have a high fever, I start and new job on Wednesday it's the career change I wanted since long but I dunno how healthy I would be to do it! Sorry for the rant, any suggestions for me? I have been sad and crying the whole day today I just wanted to share with someone thanks for hearing me out!