Woman’s perspective

Sooo we’re trying to conceive, she doesn’t have the time or patience to log info everyday so I do... I’m loving this app because it’s giving me a lot of info I didn’t know. Anyway, I guess here is the best place to ask this...

She looooves anal, I love that she loves anal lol. We both enjoy giving and receiving rim jobs and she will play with my ass while giving me head, a little fingering.

Here’s the question and maybe the weird part. We watch a lot of porn. A few times recently we’ve came across pegging videos and she’ll really get into rubbing my dick. It’s also gotten to the point I think it turns me on... I guess what I’m asking is if it’s a normal thing and how to go about asking her. I mean I’m slightly embarrassed because it comes off as a little gay, just the dick shaped strap on. But we have amazing sex, we are both good looking heterosexual. I’m by no mean into men lol but gay men don’t freak me out. I guess I just want some advice on how or if I should bring it up, maybe how to go about the actual act and what women who have used a strap on actually think about it. She’s submissive and I’m the dominant one, do the roles come off awkward? Id never have dreamt I’d be asking this but the idea of her doing it is insanely turning me on... and psyching me out at the same time