I'm in love with another man!! 🤷🏽‍♀️

My guy and i have been together for 4 1/2 years. We both had infidelity on both parts. He has been in the hot seat just months ago for cheating and sexting with other women. We have kids together and I feel like if we didn't we would've been apart years ago. He gives random women money and asks to give them oral sex, I chose to end things but to remain co parents. He didn't want that, I began working a full time job which entails me to be around a lot of men. (No not stripping) 🙄 he wanted to try to fix things between us once I started working. Mind you I haven't been with anyone else in over 2 years. (I wanted to try to give my all once our kids started arriving) but he had different plans.

So moving on, as if recently I met a guy at work who is funny, handsome, a hands on parent, works for the state and present. He began talking at work, which then led to texting, then ended up in hanging out. He knows about my kids father and that we live together, he even is buying an apartment for my kids and myself (he will live their part time as well) he lives 2 hours away now. But I found myself thinking about being with him...but NOW MY EX wants to be the perfect "boyfriend". Living with him makes it harder not catching feelings again, but now I found myself having STRONG Feelings for this other guy!! 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️ I don't know what to do!!!!!

I tried calling it quits with the other guy, but he wasn't having it! (He called non stop, and texted and even drove down to talk) ..(I broke it off via-text...I know "childish"). But then I tried to end it with my kids father and HE WASN'T HAVEN'T IT EITHER!!

WHAT SHOULD I DO????????????