Wish he was a little more empathetic

I sometimes get overwhelmed & struggle with dealing with my 3week old. I’m a ftm & don’t have any experience with babies at all. Instead of my bf being supportive, he tells me I need to embrace being a mother instead of trying to find ways around it then he tells me his mom had 5 kids & still worked (I’m currently on maternity leave) & he’s calling me weak & I’m just so upset because I should be able to confide in him & he listen & find ways to help me. Instead he compares me to his mom. Also, since she’s been born he either slept or had plans everyday so I told him well atleast when u get back I expect a break, he says a break from what?🙄🙄 like wtf. She woke up 1 night at 4am, instead of feeding her he comes to wake me because I don’t have to work like he does as he said. That pissed me off because he was able to get to her before I did & her bottle was already made why couldn’t he just feed her😡 & I understand he does work & I usually do cover everything at night but that was just a asshole thing to do imo