So me and my family were in college station over the weekend and my cousin is a guy and were the same age. He started to joke with me saying I would never get into a good college and I was stupid and that I would get no where in life. Then he said if I did get into a college, I would get pregnant. Now, this boy has now clue about periods or infections and diseases. He also joked and said he's going to get a guy to rape me when I'm 14. We're both 12 and he has no idea what stuff like does to my does to my self confidence and self esteem. He one time told my older brother that I gave my ex boyfriend herpes. It really hurts and I can't take the jokes anymore. Is this verbal abuse or what?? I NEED advice!