Jerk at Work

Audrey

There’s this guy at work I cannot stand (don’t judge, everyone has one). At the end of a meeting yesterday he turns to me -maybe 20 other people in the room- and says “when are you due?” I’m 11+6 and I’m not showing that much, mostly just a big girl to start with. So I try to play it off like he asked what I’m doing so he repeats louder and clearer “NO, WHEN ARE YOU DUE, WHEN ARE YOU HAVING YOUR BABY” 👀🤬. I tell him it’s not appropriate to ask and then walk out of the meeting. I sent him an email an hour or two later about how uncomfortable it made me and how I felt it was inappropriate to ask, especially in front of a group. He responded he was just trying to be nice. I have another appointment on Friday and I’ll feel more comfortable discussing it after making sure everything is fine but I was fuming yesterday. Since when is it ever appropriate to ask someone when they’re due when you don’t even know if they’re pregnant?