will his mood change once baby get here? this is our first baby he doesn't seem to really wanna talk about anything. I am excited and wanna talk about her, she'll be here in a few weeks. when picking out her name he didn't wanna participate. and he hasn't even offered to go to no doc appointments I've had to beg him. only one he went to was ultrasound and one the other day. but I have to go with him to ALL his doctor appointments. I've had to go to hospital a couple times and he wont even offer to take me my mother has to go with me. it's not my mother's place really it's my husband's. I just feel like he doesn't care and it wont change when she gets here. He didn't even wanna come to our baby shower or me even have a baby shower or be in my maturnatiy pics. I just feel alone