So after a year of TTC and being mentally and physically abused my s/o jumped on me and left me. im a single mother of a 5year old princess and this rainbow 🌈 baby 🚼 (I've lost a set of twins a few years ago) he started a argument with me on the day of my aunts funeral and got so angry because i didn't want him to come after the fight that he jumped on me in front of my 5 year old daughter (which was terrified and still has dreams of it) i was already high risk because of preeclampsia with my daughter's birth and having a cesarean, and the loss of the twins. but due to the stress and labor of me at of work I began to bleed and was placed on bed rest. now he wants to be in the babies life....

Now my question to you ladies is whould I be wrong to never speak to him again and to keep my child away from him due to the fact of trying to keep my children safe and myself???

Help!

went to the hospital with me and had been very supportive up until that day. after the authorities were involved he made threats to kill me and cause harm to those that I loved and care for (including my daughter) so at that point I decided to cut all Communications even about the baby and to block him on every single thing possible now I am planning to move soon I switch doctors but now he wants to be a part of the baby's life....

::Update!!!!::

I tried to let him be involved in the baby's life (we even had visitations set up and it was going well...) But as always 6 months into it he tried the "I want my family back & I wanna work things out" thing again and I let him come around more just to see but sure enough he tried it again but this time he was shocked to find out. I fight back & I also hit hard, so with that being said he was arrested has two felonies and is facing prison time but he also is underneath a five-year restraining order and can not see come in contact or any of his family are friends with my children or me.

I feel so at peace and we moved!

I shared a little of my story just in hopes of being a help to someone else that may be going through the same or worse...God is good I'm so blessed to be alive and I pray this helps you. You can make it and you are stronger then you think... Love you my sisters😘😍💜