Does the fire ever go out? If so how do u fix it?

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How many of you are still deeply in love with your partner and how long have you been together? Or do you just live them bc you have been together for so long it's all you know how to do? I have been in a relation ship for over 4 years now and I no I'm no longer in love with him. I still love him but I don't wanna have sex with him anymore and I'm no longer really attracted to him idk what to do??? Any advice???

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I’ve been with my husband for 8 years now (married for 4) and trust me when I say all those vows of the highs and the lows are super essential. The fire is a result of hormones and will fade out eventually. What you have left is hard earned love. It gets hard sometimes but once you learn to work past the hard days, the good ones are so worth it. My husband used to make me giddy but now our relationship is quite mature. I love him deeply. Yes there are things that can be done to keep the flame. Spend quality time, go on holiday, date, we had a sexy adventure this week by doing it in public 🤣🤣 
Your sex drive will not always be high, you gotta crank yourself up and get with it. Once you’re in it you’ll be wondering why you weren’t diving in all along

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End it. 
Sometimes that happens. You aren’t happy so its best to be honest break up.

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The flame goes down but doesn’t go out completely in true love . Go on adventures and try new experiences together. It strengthens the bond when you go through experienced together. You live and learn together. And lots and lots of companionship and trust

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10 years together, 8 married. Does the spark go out? Yeah, on and off, but I have never doubted my love for him. I think a lot of the "spark" issues, are about growing together, and it can be a challenge. I also suffer with anxiety and depression, so that's not very helpful in our relationship. I find my mood shifts, to really put a damper on things sometimes. We work it out together though, we're committed to making our marriage work, and committed to eachother.

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I've been with my SO for a year and a half, living together for 7 months. We have our ups and downs but we are both completely head over heels for each other and deeply committed, there is no question about that. I was married to a man for 10 years, had two children and in hindsight, I feel like all I did was go through the motions with him. There was no passion or romance or really anything outside of just existing together. I lived for my kids, I stayed for my kids, hoping it would get better, that something, anything would change....it never did. You should move on with your life. If you don't feel connected or even attracted to him anymore, perhaps it's time to pull the plug 🤷❤️

Does the fire ever go out? If so how do u fix it?

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