So about two years ago I was with a guy, for about a year and he was very abusive. I was pregnant and stupid bc I stayed with him. He would do ignorant things accuse me of cheating constantly, and we would physically fight. I would never back down from him. So I’m sure you can call me abusive as well🤷🏽‍♀️ and clearly I was stupid. But I never hit him first, I always hit him back. And one day I woke up and BAM I was gone. Shortly after that relationship ended, I got with my now husband, and I have been very open with him about my past relationship and he know as much about my ex as he wants to. Anyways, tonight we were wrestling around and he hit me (obviously playing), and my first instinct was to punch him in the face. It’s something I intend on talking to him about but has anyone else had this problem after an abusive relationship? He also says things that hint that he thinks I’m cheating or intend on cheating, and that really boils my blood bc that’s another thing my ex done🙄. Just need some advice.