sorry for the long rant guys ... so lately me and my boyfriend have been fighting quite alot because i always feel like he doesnt want to be around me or hangout with me. tomorrow is my dads birthday and i asked him if he wanted to come to the dinner (i’ve been asking him all week) so yesterday i got off of work and asked again and he said hes hanging out with his friends , i started short talking him because i was upset and he knew it so i went to sleep and i woke up and he texted me apologizing and saying he’ll come but he forgot , idk how he could forget if i said it everyday for like a week . ik hes forgetful but i feel like he just doesnt care enough. everytime i aks to see him or hangout or have him come over its always an excuse . i really love him and want to be with him and i tell him all the time how i feel when i do feel like that but it just doesnt seem to change . we talked about it once and he said it doesnt bother him if he doesnt see me because he’s used to being alone he told me dont take it the wrong way but how else am i supposed to take it? we hardly see each other because of our work schedules as it is so every chance i get i try to see him but i feel as if he doesnt feel the same and when i mention it and he changes his mind i feel like he feels like hes forced to do it now and i dont want that , he said he hasnt hung out with his friends in forever but he literally talks to them 24/7 and plays on the xbox with them right when he gets off , im not trying to take him away from his friends at all but i would like to spend time with him too . i dont feel like im overreacting but can somebody please help me not feel like this? theres so many nights i cried myself to sleep because of this , i just cant helo but feel as if he doesnt want to be around me anymore we went from seeing each other every single day for like 2 months to barely seeing each other once a week and it really upsets me but doesnt seem to bother him.