Background: I am nearly twenty three. Have a daughter,she is three. I am with most fantastic man ever. My best friend, my soul mate, my lover, my partner. We do want four children. Why is it, people find it weird, crazy or so? Of course, those are opinions of other people and we don't, like change our minds because of that, but just thinking. Is it wrong to do family planning and actually plan a big family? Why does couple seem out of their mind for that? Is it crazy? Why? Does it seem abnormal? Just a thoughts.