why is this happening

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I really don't know how I feel I have been getting upset latley because I am ready to start a family and get my future started and it's been killing me that I see everyone having what I want , my husband keeps giving me excuses of why it's not time yet but deep down inside I'm ready to start a family is this wrong of me that its depressing me  when ever he tells me no 💔

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I went through this with my husband for 4 years. I had to respect his choice because I respect him. Recently he came to me (unpressured) and told me he was ready. Waiting was incredibly hard to do. Marriage is a life you two share and a baby is a life you two have to agree on bringing into the world.  I hope he doesn't wait as long for you guys.

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it just hurts knowing I do everything to please him and have everything for us but now I just feel  like I'm holding myself from starting something that is my happiness

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I am going through the same thing, we have been together for 7 years, married 1 1/2. He has a son that is 13 years old and he isn't ready for another one. I on the other hand haven't had any children of my own. My sister and brother in law just announced they were pregnant with their second and it was really hard for me to be excited for them because deep down that is what I want. But then again I respect the fact that he wants to wait even if it's the hardest thing ever. I know deep down he probably wouldn't have another child if it wasn't for me wanting one.

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