Shouldn’t worry about the gender??

So, I was recently talking to a relative, and mentioned that me and my SO were having a gender reveal party, and the person scoffed and said “Hm, when I was pregnant I was too busy worrying about the baby’s health rather than if it was going to be a girl or boy”, and I don’t know. Kind of made me feel wrong for having my celebration? ☹️ I care immensely about my baby’s health, we just wanted to celebrate in his or her name... 😓