He wants to be alone

I’ve been talking to this man for almost two years. Meeting was always difficult. He constantly made excuses after excuses. I believed him every time. I feel like the whole relationship I’ve been the one doing the work. He’s always had other priorities. A few days ago he proposed that he could get tickets to fly to see his parents in KY (he stays in VA) and then we could meet halfway somewhere in Illinois (I stay in Chicago). My first reaction was “why can he just fly here?” He has been telling me he would look into tickets and such to come see me. So it hurt me deeply for him to switch it up and instead of coming here he would fly to his parents and only see me for a day. I told him how that hurt me and then he told me why he thought of that idea and that it wasn’t enough apparently. I felt bad so I asked him if we could compromise but he said naw. Then I guess I felt bad and I wanted to talk about it and I opened up about what really triggered my reaction. Which is my feelings of being undervalued and appreciated. Feeling like I’m not a priority at all. But to that he just made me sound selfish telling me how his parents aren’t getting any younger and that if he’s going to spend money he rather take the chance to see them too. That I understand but not what he said after. That he would be making all the work and that if he doesn’t then it’s like he doesn’t care. I know I hurt him but he hurt me too. Now he just pushed me away. I asked him if we could talk and he ignored my texts. Then I wrote a poem and apologized if I hurt him. He just responded with “just need some time alone” so I went and deleted my Snapchat and WhatsApp so I don’t feel tempted to text him or even look at what he’s doing. I know space is the best for him and I. I just don’t know how to feel.