Ever since I had sex with my gf and I started being more in control she’s started becoming selfish in bed. I don’t know how to tell her that I’m not being satisfied as much anymore. Shes the first girl I have sex with but I’ve been with a guy before and it’s different but shes been with girls before. She’s making sex only about her now. Shell take her pants off and tell me she wants me to eat her out when I haven’t been satisfied as much as she has. How can I talk to her about this without hurting her feelings?