please help!

So i lost my baby about 3 week ago, (7wk) and my friend has just lost her baby - about 2 week ago she went to the scan to find out that her baby had no heartbeat (11wk). To try and be a good friend i told her what is helping me at the moment, and online i found a MC support group who said to help grieve for your loss imagibe your baby, and give it a sex and name, hopes and dreams etc so i told her. I think that i might have offended her in saying this because shes not spoken to me since. I dont know what to do!! I was only trying to be a friend!