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C • Sun, Apr 22

Hi ladies! I need advice on what to

awnser people.

We’ve secretly been TTC for a while now, we are keeping it secret in hope to minimize people asking about it.. but we still get asked ALOT.

Last night we were at a family gathering and at least 5 different people asked me about when and if I was pregnant or « what are you guys waiting for ».

I never know what to reply because inside my heart breaks each time reminding me that I am not pregnant.

What do you say when people ask?

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Posted at Sun, Apr 22 2018

I would point out that is a rude question and that you are happy as a couple for now. I hate this question too and I do not care to reply in a harsh way

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Posted at Sun, Apr 22 2018

I have to deal with this too.. in fact I had my mother on my case last night..I would say to respond by telling them it will happen when it happens but it doesn’t change anything

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Posted at Sun, Apr 22 2018

I just say when it happens it'll happen. no one else needs to know

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