Hmmm...how to pull this off?

Okay during sex and foreplay there is something I love to do and that my boyfriend loves to receive: I'll take a bunch of coconut oil and give him the most all over/immersive dick massage/blow-job. BUT...we use condoms because I can't be on birth control. I've only done this at a time when we weren't going to have sex after; however, I want to try it out tonight to get him really excited and ready to fuck ;) I know oils are terrible for latex, but regular lubes don't feel the same for our little ritual. Would using a wet wipe and a wet wash cloth after be enough?

Thanks!!