I work & go to school full-time . Is it wrong that I don't want to be with this guy who has nothing going for his self ? He barely works 15 hours a week . I'm 21 he's 23

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I've pretty much spent my whole life settling for guys because I've always been the type to not ask for anything materialistic but it's annoying when I'm exhausted from working over 45 hours a week & he's barely broke a sweat .. it's not just about him not having a good job it's mainly him not seeming to even have any ambition, I'm determined to better myself.

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Never settle. Ever. 
You are smart, driven young person. Never make yourself small to fit for someone else. 
There's nothing wrong with not working a ton of hours or working in a physically demanding job, but when you pair the little hours with lack of ambition-- no. 
As young people, we are still finding our path in life, but you need DRIVE, AMBITION, PASSION! 
Dont feel bad for moving on.

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Settling is never a good idea. Find someone that motivates you to be the best you can be and has similar ideals as you. Someone who had virtues you can admire.

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No, girl! There’s nothing wrong with having goals.

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Don’t ever settle for anyone or thing. If it’s not to your fullest standards, it’s not for you! You have to view things on a bigger scale.

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I honestly don't think you're wrong. It would be different if you expected him to have it all together but yet you had nothing going for you, but you have a lot going for yourself so if he can't bring something to the table nah you aren't wrong. A part time worker vs a woman with a full time job & going to school full time ? Nah girl he won't even truly understand you!

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I meant to vote no

I work & go to school full-time . Is it wrong that I don't want to be with this guy who has nothing going for his self ? He barely works 15 hours a week . I'm 21 he's 23

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