I was talking with my current bf about the future. I mean he wants to have a child together but he doesn't want to get legally married. I have a daughter from a previous marriage. I brought up marriage and he goes off saying " how can I tell my mother, I am with someone who is divorce and has a child" telling me how selfish I am.

I am so angry about this and feel am I wasting my time?

he apologized but still now the damage is done. I don't normally ask other people's opinions but I feel I love him but again I need to have a marriage as I am a woman of God ( my previous relationship I left because of abuse of me and my daughter)

Maybe I should just dump him.

I don't even know why I started the relationship I thought it was love but why do I think there are some good guys eventually they all show there true colors.

I was hurt that he called me selfish because I want to get married in the future and because I want him to accept my daughter....

he is an Asian man so maybe it's a culture difference?

update:

We started talking more about this matter but he just seems he wants to drop it.

I am not sure how much longer this relationship will last. He is the one that's selfish. I am not only supporting him emotional but I am also financially support him in some ways. All he complains about is how ''i am not kind" " I don't keep up with the house work" " My three year old daughter doesn't listen to me"

actually I am really tired of his laziness. He is home all day and maybe I would like if he would help around the house. My daughter is in daycare all day because I work all day so I can come home to my bf complain about I don't clean the house enough. Maybe I am just angry about how he said those things to me a few days ago.

I don't know just now I worry about my daughter. She calls him father and now I feel like it's a waste of time.