I was clean for 19 days, but I had a break down last night and began to self harm again but in a different area. I usually self harm on my wrist but now I'm starting to do it on my thigh. I don't cut or anything but I do a different tho of self harm. I could barely walk today and felt like shit from crying to hard last night, but I am currently talking to this guy and we both want to have sex, but I'm so sensitive and don't think stopping (if I decide to stop) will be any easier than it was last time. Should I tell him about it? he already know I self harm and was trying to stop, but I'm not sure if I should tell him or try sex.