When do you draw the line?

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Okay ladies. I only been married for 2 yrs and I already feel like i want out. This is why. We have dated longer than we have been married. But when we said I do, he changed. I have been cheated on my him texting someone then he slept with someone too. We separated and I came back but nothing changed. It’s like when I married him, he stopped doing the things he did when we was just dating. When we got married, it was like he would do anything to not be around me. We have one child out of it. I don’t regret our child. But now I want to leave. So divorce ladies, how did you know when it was time to leave? How is life as a divorcée?

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When you get enough you will do something about it. Please don’t take that as being rude and I’m not promoting divorce but you must determine your worth and what you are willing to accept if you feel you have done all you can and he’s unwilling to change then you may consider leaving. I too dated my husband far longer than I’ve been married. June makes 2 years of my marriage. I’m currently 20 weeks pregnant with our first child together although we both came into the marriage with one child. Things got worse after we got married. Verbal and physical abuse. I left a few times but went back. This last time I left I haven’t gone back. It’s been 5 months. I’ve done all I can. I can’t change him. So it’s either accept him as he is or not. I love him dearly but can’t live the way I have. I’ll suggest you thoroughly evaluate your situation as only you can decide what’s best and when you have had enough.

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I was with my ex husband for just shy of 4 years. We dated for just under 2 years before getting married. 
He was a good guy until we got married and right after we said “I do” LITERALLY right after the ceremony, he changed. Our sex life was miserable before but became non-existent after the wedding. He stop caring, stopped trying. He even admitted it to my brother in law. I admit, I gave up too at some point but stayed to try and fix it. No kids, just didn’t want to be a divorcee. 
I finally had enough when I realized that I no longer wanted to be miserable. I didn’t want to live in my home with a stranger. I didn’t want to tell him where I was, nor did I want to check up on him. I no longer cared for him as a husband or friend. I had never been unfaithful to him but when I started to notice other men checking me out, i started to like it more and more. I wanted to be able to respond. I wanted to flirt. That’s when I knew it was time to get out. 
Listen, you can choose to be miserable or you can get out and find your happy. I met my current husband 3 weeks after I left my ex and can honestly, whole-heartedly say that he is my soulmate. I’m finally in love and loved by someone the way that I’ve always pictured it. I was so unsure of having kids with my ex but with my husband now, I knew right away, date #1, that I would have his children and be insanely happy. You stayed while he cheated and tried to make it work, which is honorable of you, but now you see that it’s not working you’re not happy. Leave. Give your LO a better home environment. Show her what love is. Show her how she should be treated.

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I’m since remarried... but divorcing my ex husband was the best thing I ever did for myself. It was painful, heartbreaking, and one of the hardest things I’ve ever gone through but finding myself again after all his abuse was worth it.

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When he no longer respects you. It’s time to go. His behavior clearly shows he does t respect you

When do you draw the line?

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