obgyn are crazy!

so long story short i went to my obgyn thrww times this year after havung my daughter in 2016 shes 18 minths now and i have a 3 year old almost 4.... ive been with my husband 7 years and married 5 years. only had two kids since then. my husband is 10 years older than i am which isn't a problem for us. this Doc keeps asking me if i was birth contril and if I want my tubes tide every visit it gets annoying ive always said no to those options. he even tells me that if I dont want kids i need to do it. im like who are you to tell me that I shouldnt have more kids ? what if i want more kids. I feel like I'm the only one thats not allowed to have more than two kids. it breaks my heart that since I had my second child everyone is against me. my mother passed before my daughter was born and no one seemed happy .. im not trying to get pregnant but me and the hubster know how to have safe sex. its not.of the doctors concern how and what we do to not have more babies.

have any of y'all delt with docotors like thAt. ?