He hates my character?

I tried to have an open conversation about how I’ve been feeling disrespected by the way he treats me when he’s angry. Needless to say, he wasn’t receptive at the time (we just recently argued the day before) and it escalated. This time he said he hates my character, that he doesn’t feel bad about hurting me (during the argument), that he feels nothing. He apologised the next day and said he loves me. But I’m still very deeply hurt by his comments - particularly the “I hate your character” yes I was angry too and I can be extremely stubborn when fighting. But I just don’t know what to do now. This fight put a hole in my previously solid relationship boat. Help?