Advice please...

I have never posted on her before but I just really need some advice. My husband and I have been trying to get pregnant for almost 4 years now. All testing has come back normal for both him and myself. Last July I had a missed miscarriage. Due to my husband traveling to Mexico we were advised not to try again for 6 months. So we Started to try again in November of 2017 and I have still not conceived. 2 weeks ago I had emergency surgery to remove my appendix, I had no complications and the surgeon gave me the okay to try again during my next cycle. Well today I got my period cycle day 1. So I emailed my obgyn like she asked me to letting her know we have been trying 6months with no success and that I would really like to try Clomid. She emailed me back saying to wait several more months due to my appendicitis and recent surgery. If the surgeon said it was okay, I don’t see the problem. I’m just really frustrated at this point.