Feeling Fat

I need a positive outlook, backstory...I have 2 girls, 10 and 2! First child I was 25yrs old, gained tons of weight but was a single Mom after her birth I focused on one meal a day and walking everyday and got under pre-pregnancy weight. Second child was 33, walked the whole pregnancy didn’t gain too much and stayed at a healthy pregnancy weight struggled like hell to loose weight, both girls were c-sections.

Today 9weeks pregnancy, 15lbs over weight, and feeling nasty. I feel like my saggy stomach sits on my legs when I am sitting. I walk everyday and eat pretty healthy. This was a planned pregnancy, I just want some positive vibes. I keep telling myself once this hopefully healthy baby comes I need to focus on my fitness. I feel guilty for even having negative body image thoughts just because so many people have difficultly conceiving.

I was curious if there is anything more then walking everyday that I should be doing to help with my pregnancy. I am 9 weeks and haven’t gained a pound but I know the pounds will come soon enough. This is my final pregnancy and I don’t want to feel down, out, and horrible about myself.

I actually feel bad for my husband, we have only been married 3yrs and i got pregnant right after our wedding and now I am so much larger!