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My best friend absolutely hates my boyfriend. Literally all she does is talk shit about him. Even when I’ve asked her to not do it around me she does it. 
We both have babies 4 months apart by brothers. Her son is older. I don’t know what the hell to do. I love the girl to death but she won’t stop no matter what it is and it’s making this pregnancy( pregnant with my second now) hard on me because I feel like I can’t complain to her about stuff when I should be able too because I feel like anything I tell her she will just use against him. 
If ive been able to get past the horrible things he’s done and move on from it why the hell cant anyone else? I feel like I have no one.

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Maybe she senses something in him that you don't. It happens with me and my best friend. I refrain from talking smack about her bf because I respect her but I still think the guy sucks. Maybe ask her what is wrong, and even if it's your bf, try seeing things from her perspective. She cares a lot about you I bet, and she hates seeing you sad about stuff he does. So maybe just talk hun, best way to approach.

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I would look at her and say you know what I’m supposed to be your friend and you’re supposed to trust my choices you’re not supposed to judge me nor are you supposed to talk shit on my husband he is my man he’s the father of my children and you have absolutely no right you need to keep your mouth shut if you have a problem. You should have more respect for me and I should be able to vent to you with you having more respect for me and my husband I don’t talk shit about yours

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Sometimes best friends see things that we don’t in the moment. I’d trust her over the guy that fucked up before.

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Have you tried asking her what makes her hate him so much? No one just wakes up one day planning on hating someones guts randomly.

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I complained about my friends boyfriend because all she did was tell me about the bad things. She never told me any good stuff he did for her.

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