No Sex

When my boy doesn’t ever have enough energy for sex so I ask him to stop jerking off and have sex when he’s horny and he doesn’t initiate sex for two weeks and when I ask about it he finally does and then he can’t get it up so I ask if anything’s wrong and he says it’s too sore from him jerking off. He would actually rather have sex with his hand than me. And thinks it’s unreasonable that my feelings are hurt.