I have been wanting only my husband in the delivery room (against my mom's wishes...) and we both kinda want it to be a moment between us, that we share. but when we talked about a photographer or someone videoing the birth we both kinda decided no. is this something I'll regret later? my husband said he'll take pics, but I'm sure he'll be too busy. he really wants it to be only us, and as much as I didn't want my mom in there, she may be able to take pics for us...But then again she isn't very good at taking pictures. ahhh!! (see my struggle here?) help!