Fuming - why do

Away for a romantic spa weekend with my husband... Bought some sexy lingerie, had a few glasses of wine after dinner to get my confidence up 😉 walk out the bathroom in my new underwear, hubby barely noticed other than ‘oh is that new’ while watching tv then 2 mins later he’s snoring his head off!!! Not only that this is the second night in a row I’ve used preseed and it’s gone to waste!! I’m not direct and I know men need direct but I thought lingerie was a big fucking hint!!!! Basically if we don’t BD this weekend that’s another month we’ve missed it and been TTC for 8 months now. I’m annoyed as I’m actually really trying now as I know I’m not great at initiating sex but honestly it’s like he had no interest in me and for someone who doesn’t have a huge amount of confidence I felt pretty hot tonight with this lingerie on and it’s all gone to waste! Makes me wonder why I bother