So my wife and I are currently expecting our baby boy and I'm in my third trimester. My wife works the overnight shift at her job and one of her female coworkers asked her to come over to her place after work this weekend and spend the night and then the next day get ready (in her clothes) and go clubbing all that night together and she wouldn't even be coming home until the day after that. Am I wrong for being a little bit uncomfortable with this? I'm not allowed to go because I'm a few months from turning 21 and all of the club's this girl wants to take my wife to are over 21. It just feels a little weird to me especially being this far along in my pregnancy. I'm really not trying to be controlling or jealous or anything but am I a bad person for feeling a bit uncomfortable with this specific scenerio? *Also, the two of us have been waiting for either of our first time going to a 21 + club or bar since she turned 21(she's now 23) so that we could have that first experience together and that was important to us but it doesn't seem like she cares about that anymore :/