Getting your partner off when you're not in the mood

(Does this bother anyone else?)

I really hate seeing posts where women are saying they havnt have sex in x-amount of time and the comment section is filled with," Oh hell no thats too long." or " Even if hes not in the mood he could find other ways to get you off."

Does it suck to not have sex when you're horny, yeah of course, but men are so much more than their penises.

And they shouldn't be pressured into getting you off when they dont feel like having sex! (a woman shouldnt be pressured either)

And the icing on the cake is when the commenters automatically jump to cheating!! None of them even think,"maybe he has low testosterone?" "Maybe hes been under a lot of stress?" " Maybe this bitch is fucking crazy and hes unhappy?"

I dont know it just really fucking bothers me.