Should I talk to him?

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So my ex and I broke up over a month ago now and we decided to stay as friends. The reason why we broke up was because he said that he just didn’t love me any more and this was completely out of the blue as literally the day before he told me how much he loved me and said that I make him so happy. Many rumours spread saying that he had cheated on me with this other girl.

At first I believed it as I saw them a lot together that day and it was all very suspicious but the way he promised and swore to me that nothing ever happened and nothing ever will happen between them made me take his side because I didn’t want to ruin our strong friendship which we’ve had for over 3 years. She then texted me that night claiming that nothing happened but then she quote “me and him are just close friends and not going to lie he’s a massive flirt”. Honestly this made me super angry as she wasn’t really helping herself in the situation. I then texted him again and said if you have any respect for me you’ll just tell me the truth did something happen and again he swore nothing happened and we left it there.

Few weeks past and we started to gain our relationship back and things got less awkward between us but I could see that they were together a lot again it it’s clear that she likes him. She obviously hates me so she has never been nice and I just didn’t know what to do. Coincidentally back In January he broke up with me and then the next morning immediately regretted it and texted me saying he loved me and that she had actually tried convincing him that we weren’t good together and shit and that he has decided to cut her out.

So this has happened before. I can see they’re getting closer and knowing what she’s really like because I’ve even had her friends come and tell me that’s she’s not very nice and she’ll make up stuff to ruin others I wanted to warn him about what he’s getting in to because I still care and I’d hate to see him hurt.

I was going to do it on Friday but never got round to doing it because I was too busy flirting with him. Later on that day I’m on Snapchat and I go do my daily check on snapmaps and what do I see? They’re bloody together. I was devastated. Not only the fact they were together but the fact that I also remembered about the promise he made to me which now seems to have been broken.

I immediately texted my bests friends one said tell him how you feel and the other saying what I don’t get is if he didn’t like you why would he feel the need to lie to you? A lot of people have said he still does like me even his close friends said so.

But I’m very convinced he’s not. Her best friend even texted me (who might I say is one of his exes to) about how distraught and upset she was about her friend and how awful she feels for me. And then I’m sat here thinking could she just be a rebound?

I also noticed he has unliked all my Instagram photos which is very very unlike him. All his comments are still there but no likes and I know that has only been done in the last few days so think she could have also been involved in that!

Im still trying to decided whether I should confront him tomorrow about him lying and breaking promises or should I just let it go? Someone help and what should I say if I should say something? What do you all think???