My pop pop is dying

My poor pop pop who I haven’t seen in years since one of our other family members funeral is dying and I can’t go see him. He is in PA, I am in FL. I’m pissed at this whole situation because my mom, dad and brother are all going because they have no jobs or lives and my brother can just dump his kids on his girlfriend because she has no job or life either. I work and my husband works plus we have a 15 month old and I’m 6 months pregnant I can’t exactly drop everything and leave. I feel terrible I can’t afford to do this but everyone else can 😔

I hope he knows I loved him