Is it just me...or?

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I’m trying to be happy for a friend that just has her baby, but it’s so hard because I’m so sad about losing mine... it just feels like they’re rubbing it in my face, but I know they aren’t. And I feel bad for feeling that way but I can’t help it. I’m still so sad and angry....

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It’s a totally legit feeling to have. I straight up told my best friend who’s almost in her third trimester that I couldn’t see her for a little while and warned her I might just start crying when I do see her. I explained it’s absolutely nothing against her, it’s just too hard for me at this time. She totally understood.

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I have a friend who just had her baby yesterday (6 weeks early) when my old due date was tomorrow. I'm so happy for her, but the reminder that our babies would be a few days apart is heartbreaking....😢

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It's hard to swallow the bitterness that comes with fertility issues. I know firsthand. I've watched so many around me get pregnant (or stay pregnant) with ease and you just find yourself asking, "Why can't that be me?". It was so bad with my oldest sister's most recent pregnancy (this is her 4th) that I had to almost mentally block out that she was even pregnant to maintain some sense of sanity. I love the newest addition to death but that desire to be a mom is so all consuming when it's just out of your reach that it feels like a slap in the face. I get you, it doesn't mean that there is anything wrong with you as a person, it just means you need space to deal with your own feelings and that's perfectly okay. As long as what you are doing isn't causing harm to others, do what you need to do to heal.

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I get that horrible jealousy every time someone I know gets pregnant. a girl from high school is pregnant with her third. Her birth control Mirena failed. She got pregnant with an IUD in her body, and here I am still trying to conceive a healthy baby after a miscarriage. The jealousy is strong. I try to hide it around the people I'm close to who are pregnant. I still wish them all well, and am excited for them. I just want it to be my turn too.

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Do you feel like that about the other thousands of people who are pregnant as well. I never get it I’ve lost 3 babies myself but I can never come to being angry or annoyed about someone else being pregnant.

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I don't think it's wrong to feel this  its normal you loss your baby and it's how you feel you can't stop your feeling I'm going thou something the same I just mc at 6 weeks and my trying my best to be happy for my brother in law and his gf that have been together for 1 month are pregnant and found out the same time as me me and my husband have tryed for 7 years and our first time didn't work wrong would be acting on the feelings and expressing them to your friend try to be happy work on yourself that's the best advice I have gotten keep your head up and your time will come too baby dust your way

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Your feelings are your feelings and you’re so entitled to feel that way. A friend of mine didn’t attend another friends baby shower because of a recent miscarriage. And you can’t blame them. It’s a hard thing to go thru. I can’t even go to Walmart or target right now. Because the time I tried i broke down when I saw the maternity clothes. 
It’s just hard when what you had was taken from you and someone else has what you want right in front of your face reminding you what you lost. I feel for you. And don’t feel wrong for how you feel. It will fade with time.

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