is a handjob considered “sex”?

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So a few months ago i hooked up with a guy and gave him a hj. Im 19 and im a virgin so when i told my friend about it she said i lost my virginity , which i completely disagree with bc i feel like losing it would mean actually having intercourse. So what do yall think????? comment ur thoughts pls

Accepted Answer

Penis in Vagina = Sex. Not blowjob. Not hand job. Your friend is an idiot.

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I think it’s under the sex umbrella, manual,anal,oral are all sex just different types. 
A lot of people think of virginity as a p in v situation but sex happens other ways too.
But now people are starting to decide what they consider virginity so it’s also a personal choice.

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No penetration, still a virgin. lol. But you did lose the #HandjobVirginity!

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virginity is subjective. i don’t even care what anyone says, you can choose when you feel you’ve lost your virginity.

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virginity is a social construct. you lose your virginity when you feel like you do ✋ 
ex. I'm hella fucking gay and definitely not a "virgin" but I've never fucked a penis

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Voted yes.. meant no it’s classed as sex BUT  losing your virginity requires his cock in you 👍🏼

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absolutely fucking not 🤦🏾‍♀️ your friend is an idjit

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It falls under sex category. But I wouldn’t say you lost your virginity. That being said that’s up to you to decide. Virginity isn’t as simple as a penis going into a vagina. If it was how would anyone who’s not straight lose their virginity?

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I voted yes, assuming we were talking about your significant other... so I totally would consider it sex.
But if you’ve never had sex and you did this, I would say you didn’t lose your virginity.

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Oh man... Here we go again lol 🤣 you did not lose you virginity sweetheart 🤗

is a handjob considered “sex”?

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