So I’ve never really thought I would ever be in a relationship with multiple people. But this last week I was messaged on tinder by a guy, who I thought was single, turns out he’s married with 3 kids😅 He told me him and his wife were looking for someone to join them in the bedroom and we would all kinda be friends with benefits basically. Is this considered a poly relationship? An open relationship? Swinging? I honestly don’t know what it is and I would really like to know.

Also, I only ever message him, but when we hang out it’s the three of us. Then tonight he asked if I had feelings for him and I told him the truth which was no. But he told me that if I ever did develop feelings for him it would be okay with him and his wife, and that we could still continue what we’re doing. Does that change what you would consider this relationship?

When me and him text, I know he tells his wife part of the convo cause he’ll randomly say her opinion on something I said, but we also flirt and I don’t know if that’s okay. He calls me babe and love and all these nicknames and it honestly kinda feels like I’m in the beginning stage of a relationship with just him, and then we have sex all together, the three of us.

I would just like some clarification on what some of you guys think this would be classified as. And if any of you think what I am doing is wrong? He’s wife knows everything, but I just don’t really know what’s going on😅