Being happy because of other females

My bf said he is happy being with me. I only feel like he is just putting up with me because we have a baby now. I love him.

I can always tell whenever he talked to a female friend or just a female somewhere on a Language exchange app or online gaming. Its no problem to have female friends. But after talking or messaging them, he would be smiling more. He would get in this weird happy mode, where I know oh he just had a convo with another female.

Honestly, we have dwindled soon before I was pregnant. He used to be happy like that with me but I feel whenever he gets bored , he would try to talk to his female friend and then he would be in his happy mode.

Some people say it’s okay to have your man’s spirits up from someone else but I feel like we shouldn’t be together if I’m not enough to make him that happy anymore.

I feel like that’s why he stops trying to be romantic with me. I talked to him about it. He says it’s not the case but he comes up with different excuses.

I stopped caring about myself like losing weight or dressing up, fixing my hair, etc because why bother if he is going to his female friend instead. I stopped trying to talk about my problems to him because he is tired of hearing these things. He just ignores me and goes right to sleep.

For my daughter, I want to make it work but if I can’t make him happy like I used to, what’s the point. Any advice I would appreciate! Thank you ☺️!