Anxious all the time

Since December, when I started Zoloft for my BPD, I haven't been extremely anxious. A few weeks ago I found out I was pregnant (very planned, and very happy), and the mood swings have been causing turmoil inside my head. I just recently moved and have yet to find a counselor and psychologist. I'm just anxious all the time to the point of not wanting to do anything.

On top of this my husband seems really distant. I don't think he's meaning to be. He gets in these cycles where he ignores a lot of things and only focuses on his game, but doesn't realize it. He'll put little to no effort in a lot and it really becomes annoying to me. But I'm too nervous to talk to him because I don't want to be naggy.

We've been apart for a year, while he was stationed in South Korea, and he's only been home since January. So I know he's used to being able to do very little, and do whatever he wants. And I'm used to handling a lot by myself. But I've been dealing with this anxiety, and I feel like he doesn't really care, because it's stressful on him, and he's forgotten how to deal with it. There's a lot that has been bugging me and I tell him...but it just seems that talking to him doesn't ever fix anything for a long time, only a little while... and I don't know what else to do. I feel like I'm the only one trying nowadays because he just seems focused on his own things...

Idk I just needed to vent and get some of this off my chest.