Am i wrong for cheating??

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Ok so ive been dating the same person for five years now. Our anniversary was yesterday. We've dated on and off for five years. I really love the man. Hes the perfect boyfriend and he'd be the perfect husband. In these five yrs i have cheated with many times. And i know he knows ive cheated on him. And i know he knows why i cheat but he doesnt say anything. As he once told me "as long as i dont see you, ill be ok with it". But i dont do it cuz i dont love him. I do it because sexually im not satisfied. He will only last max 10 min in bed. And during those minutes i have to FAKE my orgasms and my moans. His penis isnt that big either. And i really LOVE having orgasms. I love feeling satisfied, the rough sex, the oral sex, the orgasms i have with my other sex partners. Of course its always safe sex. I do wish i could stop and only be with him, but i cant. Sexually i need more. I need to feel more. And my boyfriend isnt sexually giving me what i want and need. I really dont know what to do. I dont want to cheat anymore. I dont want to go into marriage knowing that i will not be satisfied. But i love him i seriously do. He isnt the type of man that like to explore in the sex department. i need an advice. I dont know what to do

Accepted Answer

Then stop fcheating and figure out how to fix your issues in the bedroom. It’s really not that hard. There are plenty of things you can be doing to help your sex life but instead you’re spending your free time cheating 😑

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Yes, You're wrong for cheating. Period.

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If you’re cheating on him you clearly don’t love him. Stop putting him through that and break up with him already!!!

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Yeah, you are wrong for cheating. Being sexually unsatisfied isn’t a good excuse. Get some toys, learn how to use them, then you can start getting off during sex too. Maybe with toys he can get you off then y’all can have sex so he cums too. Or, leave him. Quite frankly he deserves better.

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Yeah you need to leave him ..poor guy 🤢

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You’re a total tramp and I hope you’re getting regular sti screenings or are using a barrier method of contraception. People like you make me sick.

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Others have said what I'm thinking, and on top of all that, STOP FAKING ORGASMS!!! That's part of the problem. He can't know what you want, when you let him think that what he's doing is working. If you really love him, then don't ever cheat again. Get some toys for yourself, and tell him what you want in bed. There's also ways to get a man to last longer in bed, look into those. I believe there are actually lubes you can get that will reduce the sensations he feels rather than amplify. Look for some of those. Going to someone other than your SO to "solve" problems will only make the problems worse.

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Yes, you’re wrong for cheating. How could you do that to someone you love?!?! 
My partner didn’t know how to give me an orgasm either but I taught him how. I communicated with him and was patient with him and spent time with him. 
If you keep faking orgasms with your partner he’s never going to learn. 
If your sex life outside of your relationship is more important than being faithful to your partner, then you shouldn’t be with him.

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If you really loves him you would not cheat.  Yes you are wrong. Big time and you know that.

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yes you are wrong for cheating... and honestly when you really LOVE someone no matter what you won't be f***ing other men you have to be honest with your bf and tell him he does not satisfy you and maybe you are wrong on thinking he knows you are cheating if i was a guy and i knew my girl was having sex with other guys for pleasure i wouldn't be with her

Am i wrong for cheating??

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