9 days postpartum

My fiancé has taken 2 weeks off of work which I’m so thankful for. He’s been doing all of the chores and 90% of the cleaning. Driving us to our doctors appts, staying in the car with our little girl so I can run in quick errands. He’s been absolutely amazing. He knows sex is off limits for the 6 weeks until my appointment. However he won’t effing shut up about getting his dick sucked and jacking him off. I love him to death but holy shit it’s barely been a week, give me a fucking break. I’m feeding our child for what feels like 24/7. I’m still recovering from giving birth. My back is killing me nonstop just from sitting and breastfeeding all the time. And it still hurts to sit down like a normal human (but I can rarely sit or lay in other positions due to breastfeeding). I’ve told him to chill. I even promised today I’d do stuff and then he starts bashing me saying it won’t be good and that I won’t even do it. Like I’m sorry I’ve been feeding our daughter all day and we had to run errands and pay rent, not to mention I let him sleep in 2+ hours after me just out of the kindness of my heart since he’s been doing so much. But omg give me a break. He can’t even go a week without bringing up getting his dick sucked. Like I can’t do anything for 6 weeks if not more. You can fucking handle 6 weeks out of our entire lives, but he doesn’t know when to drop it. Not to mention when he says it’s not even going to be good, like that doesn’t particularly make me want to even do anything. Anyone else in this position or have been? Because I’m trying to get him to understand and he won’t.... and I’m losing patience.