ok long story short went to my anatomy scan and the ob there was horrendous it was not at all about the baby but assumptions she had made about my over all health. She continued to say because im not at an "ideal weight" she wanted to see me for more ultrasounds. I and my SO were completely taken back. Here was this ob that didnt bother to learn my name or talk to me and was giving me advise, i said no then talked to my ob. Thankfully i did because he was all apologise and let me know that all his patients walk away upset by the obs at that particular center. And then told me that anyone with a bmi higher then 25 they do this to. He explained the bmi doesnt allow for pregnancy or water retention ext. and generally the extra scans are optional but recommended because my emergency csection with my son. So for other mothers always tripple check any advise with ur obgyn that knows you and ur situation before makimg a decision.