Is it possible to love two people?

Question

I’m married. And I do love my husband soo much. He never fails to show me how much I mean to him/how much he loves me. The butterflies with him are never ending. Our marriage is amazing..
Today, I talked to my ex of 5 years (13-18 he was my first everything) bc of some finical stuff that is happening that involves him bc it’s leaving me in debt. After we got off the phone and every time I think of what’s going on, I burst out in tears. And all I can think about is why is this happening to me, why couldn’t he just change so we wouldn’t have to go through this, why wasn’t I enough, why am I always the one getting fucked over when all I ever did was help.. I feel so guilty feeling this way.. I mean I do still love him but I don’t love him to get back with him. Does that make sense? I’ve moved on and I’m happy with where my life stands today. Bt i just don’t understand why I still feel like this.. it’s been almost 3 years. 
If you take the time to read please leave a comment, I understand I will be judged and have some negative comments.. I don’t really have friends so I have nobody to talk too. I love this app because everybody is very open. So anybody to give opinions etc is appreciated, thank you.

Answer

I honestly do not think you are still in love with him you are just in love with the memories and the fact that he was your first love. I'm guessing that because you did not get closure, it still hurts but the fact that you are not willing to give up your husband now for him says a lot. I think you just need to be thankful for the good and bad times you had with him. The good for showing you how love is such a beautiful thing and the bad for showing you that you need to be appreciated. Whatever issues he had were not your issues, they were his. If you need a friend, you can always message me

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It very well is possible to be in love with two people. There are polyamorous relationships, or of coarse non-romantic types of love like with family and friends. However just because you can love multiple people romantically doesn’t mean you will always get them. You will have to make a choice for either your husband or ex, assuming neither of them would be interested in a poly relationship.

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At first the title of this made me think an immediate NO but after reading i think differently  
There is a difference of being in love and loving someone. I will also always love my ex (not to the point of crying over him or wondering why I wasn’t enough) but I still care for him and would care if he was down in life and be happy for him when he succeeded. 
However I am NOT in love with him. I have no romantic feelings towards him at all. I would not care to have dinner with him kiss him or leave my fiancé for him. 
I do not believe you can be IN LOVE with 2 people. (Just because if you truly loved one how could you betray them that way) 
But I do believe you can love multiple people. Deeply care for them. And that’s ok as long as it’s not excessive and harming your relationship. It’s ok to care for someone you once loved.

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No.

Is it possible to love two people?

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