long post I'm sorry! But advice needed!

Long post please read any advice is needed no harsh comments exsplain dont be rude i need help with a unbias opinion

so my father hates how I am growing up.

he never wanted anything to do with me till i started getting close with another male figure, my boyfriend, who was 16 and i was 15 i am now 17 he is 18 (two years being together) then my father wanted to do friend things hang out and he wanted to care and be a parent but I wanted my normal life, before i met my boyfriend i wasnt aloud to go spend nights at people houses like ever and so now i wanted to go over there everyother saturday and he would yell at me and say no and treat me like a slut. i have these high waisted shorts and yeah when i sit they ride up and he speaks up and says "those are a little short arent they?" my mom jumped him, he has called me a whore at 12 for wearing to much eyeliner and when it was to thick for his likeing so no i didnt and dont want to hang out with him and he hasnt spoken to me much after i said i wanted to have sex yet he had sex at 12 and did drugs all the time. he did a lot more unforgivable things ill give examles if wantedim hurt that my own father cant accept that i am groowing up.