I'm a bigger girl, and the best way I've found is to straddle him, put my hands on the bed on either side of his head (or beside his chest if you're short and he's tall) so we're face to face, and then do a slow twerking type motion so we get a good in and out movement instead of just grinding on his pelvis. He prefers it more and if I sink down low enough, I can get his shaft rubbing against my clit, which feels amazing. Just try different things, see what feels good for you. He knows you don't have much experience up there, so I'm sure he'll be understanding. Don't be scared! The sexiest thing for them is confidence. It'll take some time to get the hang of it, but you'll never get it if you don't try. We've all been there!Kinda like this, and then just moving your pelvis, not your whole body.
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last night my hubby said we aren't having sex until I'm on top. I'm afraid to do cowgirl or any positions with me on top because I'm bigger and I'm afraid that it'll turn him off or that I'll hurt him. because the first time I tried cowgirl the guy went flat and my confidence about it dropped super fast. ive watched porn but the majority of those girls are super thin. So please give me some tips on how to be confident on top and how to make it work.
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