How can you complain???

So I have to vent. SO and I have been TTC 10 months and doing everything we’re supposed to (using OPKs to track ovulation, BDing every other day and then three days in a row after getting positive OPK, I’m taking prenatals, etc.). Just got my BFP this month too so hoping for a sticky bean. My friend and her SO have also been TTC the same amount of time. Every month she bitches about not being pregnant like it’s the end of the world and bad things always are happening to her and everyone else gets whatever they want...yet every month she says her SO never wants to have sex with her, they’re fighting, he’s gone, etc...like STFU - you don’t even know if/when you’re ovulating, and your SO doesn’t wanna have sex with you bc he’s repeatedly told you and anyone that will listen that he’s not ready for a baby. Stop complaining!!!! I just get sick of listening to her play victim about having “infertility problems”...if you aren’t having sex, you’re not gonna get pregnant - that’s not a fertility issue! Just had to vent before I blow the fuck up at her. I’m not telling her about my BFP either bc I know she’ll have a meltdown and question why the world is so unfair to her 🙄